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Become the Architect of

your neurofamily

Build your family by design instead of default with the unique flavor of parenting strategies that actually work.

Are you tired of the bull shirt?

You’re drowning in your child’s meltdowns, outbursts, and maybe even self-harm and you want nothing more than to help them feel safe and happy, but that seems absolutely impossible since everything seems to set them off and everyone in the world seems to be telling you that everything you do is wrong

Or maybe your child isn’t having a ton of meltdowns or outbursts, but it’s only because you and your entire family are constantly walking on eggshells and giving them whatever they want in order to keep them happy (and, let’s be honest, you’re starting to burnout because living with a tiny dictator is HARD)

Or you feel like everytime you walk into your child’s school you have “THAT MOM” tattooed on your forehead because no matter how many meetings you attend, they can’t seem to accommodate your kid the way you need them to and it seems like every other day you’re getting called to come pick your child up or calm them down from another meltdown that could have been EASILY avoided if the school would just listen to you.

WARNING: Becoming the Architect of Your Neurofamily comes with side effects like…

Knowing exactly which accommodations actually work for your neurodivergent child, providing those accommodations without burning yourself out in the process.

Balancing the different needs in your family, with a system in place for how to handle harmful behaviors like constant screaming, aggression, and head banging.

Rocking your next IEP meeting without stress and your child is even starting to advocate for their own needs and wants without screaming, whining, or ending up in a meltdown.

too good to be true?

Let me pull back the curtain on my own neurofamily...

If you didn’t already know, I’m raising six neurodivergent kids, and my husband and I are both neurodivergent.

That’s a LOT of different needs, preferences, ideas, strengths, and struggles to balance.

But we have created a neurofamily that WORKS.

Not just for the kid whose need shouts the loudest—but for all of us.

We focus on co-accommodation. Making sure everyone’s needs are being met, and that meeting those needs is not only on me as the mom.

But to do that, I had to step out of the parent-advice spiral and start making empowered choices about what strategies actually worked for my unique neurofamily.

I had to put myself back in the driver’s seat and become the architect—creating my blueprint by design instead of default.

And I’m here to help you do the same thing for your neurofamily.

And it’s not just me!

Check out what my clients are saying…

Introducing...

Neurofamily Architect

A 6-month intensive group coaching program designed to empower parents to become the architect of their neurofamily, creating customized blueprints that actually work without burning yourself out in the process.

Here’s how the Neurofamily Architect breaks down…

Weekly Group Coaching

Weekly Coaching Calls where you get your specific questions answered. (Plus you can pre-submit questions, so even if you can’t make it live we’ve got you covered!)

1:1 Private Support

Unlimited access to my DM’s where you can get private support between calls. I am literally always in your back pocket. :)

Step-by-step Curriculum

Structured content that walks you step-by-step through making empowered choices, finding the unique strategies that work for you, creating an effective blueprint, and getting to business-as-usual.

Exclusive Community

A private community where you can share wins, get your questions answered, and be reminded that you’re not alone on this journey!

The end result?

  • Step off the parenting advice spiral and finally feel confident in making empowered choices about what’s best for your unique neurofamily.

  • Follow a step-by-step process to find and tweak the specific strategies that actually work for your family.

  • Get your custom strategies to “Business as Usual”, where your family is following the plans on autopilot (even on days when everything goes to hell and no one has spoons).

  • Stick to your most important boundaries without pushing your kids into meltdowns or burning yourself out with the need to stay “consistent”.

  • Develop safety plans for your children’s dangerous behaviors like hitting, kicking, aggressive meltdowns, or self-harm.

  • Put an end to sibling fights by empowering all of your neurodivergent kids to accommodate each other (and to get their needs met even when their sibling can’t accommodate them).

MODULE TWO: Levers

  • Recognize your top priorities so that you know what will and will not work, given you and your family’s unique spoons, needs, and culture.

  • Evaluate all the possible levers you can pull to make significant progress for your neurofamily.

  • Feel confident in what strategies you can completely ignore because they simply don’t make sense for your family right now.

MODULE FOUR: Blueprint

  • Create a detailed blueprint that’s custom to you and your unique neurofamily’s strengths, struggles, needs, values, and energy levels.

  • Design plans for different situations so that you don’t fall completely off the wagon because you have a migraine or your in-laws come into town.

  • Have an oops plan ready ahead of time so that you have a way to get back on track because something will inevitably get in your way.

MODULE ONE: Foundation

  • Create a solid foundation for your family to build off of.

  • Get clear on your macro and micro whys, so that you have something to keep you going on tough days.

  • Get full control over your thought cycles—without relying on toxic positivity or ignoring REAL barriers in your way.

MODULE THREE: Schematics

  • Understand exactly how empowered choices will help you feel in control of your neurofamily again.

  • Make empowered choices with your eyes wide open—fully understanding the positive and negative outcomes—so that you don’t jump ship when the first thing goes wrong.

  • Let go of the “shoulds” and center your unique neurofamily, including yourself, in every decision you make.

MODULE FIVE: Refinement

  • Easily evaluate how your blueprint is working for your family with my simple 3-step debrief process.

  • Understand how to get your new blueprint to “Business as Usual”, where your family is following the plan on auto-pilot.

  • Discover how and when to re-visit and tweak the plan as your neurofamily enters new seasons or priorities change.

And to make sure you have everything you need, you’ll get access to these bonuses…

  • Personalized Blueprint

    When you join you’ll get access to a 1:1 call with me where we will map out your first custom and personalized blueprint together.

  • Strategy Debriefs

    Every time you create a blueprint and follow it, we will hop on a strategy debrief call to assess how to move forward.

  • Curated Library

    Instead of a billion and four modules for you to work through, you’ll get access to a curated library of unique strategies with my specific guidance on where to put your focus.

Enroll Now

✓ Neurofamily Architect Curriculum $999 Value

✓ Weekly Group Coaching $2400 Value

✓ Exclusive Community $180 Value

✓ 1:1 Private DM Support $594 Value

✓ BONUS: Custom-Created Blueprint $250 Value

✓ BONUS: 1:1 Strategy Debriefs $449 Value

✓ BONUS: Curated Library $500 Value

PAY IN FULL for $1500

FLEXIBLE PAYMENTS $250/month for 6 months

MY favorite clients have questions like this…

  • If you're like my most successful clients, you've probably tried a TON of things before. (I know I sure did!)

    And here's the deal: those books, courses, and programs can be GREAT! But a lot of the time they aren't very realistic...

    And when I can't get through a parenting book or course without feeling guilty AF (and I'm a parent coach) I know there's a huge problem.

    So Neurofamily Architect makes sure that we embrace parent humanity every step of the way.

    I'm known for "keeping it real" and making the process as easy as possible for neurofamilies like ours.

  • Abso-freaking-lutely. This program is specifically designed to empower you to find the strategies and solutions that actually work for your neurofamily—regardless of their specific diagnosis.

    That means that we focus less on generalizations like “Autistics need visuals” or “ADHD kids need reminders”, and instead hone in on what the individual members of YOUR neurofamily need.

    This way we can also include accommodations and strategies catered to the neurotypicals, undiagnosed, and diagnosed folks in our family equally instead of focusing on whoever’s diagnosis screams the loudest.

  • Oh friend, I have been there! The course graveyard on my digital shelf is scary!

    Here’s how this is different…

    I’ve intentionally created this as a coaching program so that you have multiple touch points built in.

    We have weekly coaching calls to help you get re-engaged, and you even get unlimited access to my personal DM’s for private coaching.

    You won’t fall through the cracks, my friend.

  • Literally all the support you need. :)

    Kaylene hosts a live weekly coaching call where you can get your questions answered live, and hear other people getting coached, which tends to answer questions you didn’t even know you had.

    You also get unlimited access to Kaylene’s literal DM’s. If you have a question you need handled privately, or you can’t wait for the next coaching call, you can reach out with text or voice messaging.

    Beyond that, you have the opportunity for 1:1 live coaching with Kaylene during the Strategy Debrief calls, which help you get clear on next steps every time you’ve created and implemented a new blueprint.

    So friend, if you’re worried about support, we’ve got you covered!

  • Because this is the very first time creating the Architect course modules, they will be delivered live with you.

    We will have a new module taught live roughly every two weeks. (Roughly because Kaylene is chronically ill and disabled, plus raising a neurofamily just like yours… Sometimes things come up!)

    Once the module has been taught live, it will be cut into bite-size pieces and added to your dashboard so that you can re-watch it as often as you need.

  • Absolutely everything in Neurofamily Architect is recorded and added to the dashboard within 24 hours. You will not miss anything simply because your life doesn’t match up with a call schedule. :)

    We also take pre-submitted questions for all coaching calls, so your question will be answered by me personally, even if you can’t be there live.

    Finally—there are so many other avenues of support that you will have a soft place to land even if. you can’t make a single call. Between the modules, the 1:1 dm support, and the community, you’re golden.

Enroll Now

✓ Neurofamily Architect Curriculum $999 Value

✓ Weekly Group Coaching $2400 Value

✓ Exclusive Community $180 Value

✓ 1:1 Private DM Support $594 Value

✓ BONUS: Custom-Created Blueprint $250 Value

✓ BONUS: 1:1 Strategy Debriefs $449 Value

✓ BONUS: Curated Library $500 Value

PAY IN FULL for $1500

FLEXIBLE PAYMENTS $250/month for 6 months